No China Trip next Year

You know those stupid "chain letter" emails you get from your so called friends.  Well my sister sent me one last week, and as I always do, I deleted it and sent it to the trash bin. 
A couple of days before that, I was asked by a friend if I would like to go to China with him.  April 11, 2011, for 21 days.  It was the exact itinerary that I had worked out for Bob & I, should we go. And it was only $3200.00.  A real bargain.  I could hardly breathe.  It was a dream come true.   I could get to walk on the Great Wall of China.  I went home and discussed it with Bob, as there were some awkward conditions involved.  For instance, I would be sharing a room with a "straight" man.  Bob was also concerned that I might have trouble being away for 21 days without family.  He is right, it may have been an issue.  After a short discussion, Bob agreed that it would indeed, be a wonderful opportunity for me and he was not quite as excited as I was about going to China on our next big adventure.  A major condition to the offer was,  my friend's sister was first choice and I was only going if she said "no".  He assured me that there was a very good chance that would happen, as her husband has several health issues that might prevent her from going away for 21 days.
And another totally unrelated item....  I have an annual dinner with 25 - 30 of my most intimate work friends and it is usually held in a local restaurant.  Reservations were booked at Delaineys in Guelph, the invitations were sent out and the RSVP's were rolling in.
Now back to the chain letter....  right after I deleted that email, my friend called to let me know his sister had made arrangements and was able to go to China with him.   I have to admit, I shed a tear or two.   The next day, Delainey's called, cancelling my reservation for next week, because they have had a fire.  I thought frantically and found another venue for my dinner, but now I have to send out 75 new invitations with the alternate location.
Bottom line here... this is all my sister's fault.  If she had not sent me that stupid chain letter,  I would be having dinner at Delainey's next Wednesday and going to China in April. 
I am not sure I will ever forgive her.  She is lucky Christmas is coming up and we already have scheduled dinner together.  Otherwise, I may have shunned her for the rest of the year.   Do you have a crappy chain letter that I can send off to her????